We are on Day 4 of my son's new medication.
I have been reluctant to talk about it because of the stigmas that are often associated with taking ADHD meds. I swore I would not do anything like this until it began to interfere with productivity and learning at school. And that has begun to happen, so we have started the medicine.
So far, he's doing really, really well.
Pros:
He's flying through his school work with fewer careless errors. He's able to focus in the classroom, rather than looking a bit like a ping pong ball. He's listening. He has really taken off reading this week. I don't think he has had to stand or move around the room to complete schoolwork at all this week. He is eager to take his medicine each morning and says he would rather take it than not. I think his self-esteem is improving. He has known his activity level was too much, but has had a hard time suppressing it by himself. He has not lost his spunk. He apparently sees the benefit, and I am going to try to remember that when I think about the...
Cons:
He hardly eats all day, when the medicine wears off - look out refrigerator!! He eats everything in sight. He has a pretty tough slump in the afternoon when the medicine begins to taper off. He gets a little emotional - not meltdown-level emotional, but still teary. The level of energy he exhibits in the evening has varied over the 4 days. Some days, he drags. Other days, he boings everywhere with all his pent up energy. On the first day, we had issues with aggressive behavior, but not since the first day have we dealt with that.
I think this is helping him.
I still struggle with the idea that I am allowing medicine to tamper with the chemicals in his brain. I have gone back and forth over that issue.
But when I saw his self-esteem go south and he didn't want to go to school anymore, I knew that help is what we needed.
So we're trying it.
Keep my little man in your prayers!
5 comments:
You are quite the momma.
I JUST WANT TO CONGRATULATE YOU ABOUT BEING PROACTIVE IN OUR CHILD'S ACADEMIC CAREER.
AS A TEACHER, I HAVE VERY STRONG FEELINGS ABOUT MEDICATING FOR ADD OR ADHD. THERE IS SUCH A STIGMA ATTACHED TO PARENTS GIVING THEIR CHILDREN ANY KIND OF MEDICATION.
I JUST WANT TO SAY TO ANY PARENT THAT HAS NEVER SEEN A CHILD STRUGGLE AND CRY AND KNOW THAT SOMETHING IS NOT QUITE RIGHT ABOUT THEM AND ALL OF THEIR FRIENDS ARE ABLE TO FINISH THEIR WORK WITH OUT A STRUGGLE.
I CAN NOT TELL YOU HOW MANY STUDENTS STRUGGLE AND STRUGGLE AND STRUGGLE ALL BECAUSE THEIR PARENTS WONT PUT ASIDE THEIR FEELINGS AND HELP THEIR CHILDREN.
I HAVE HAD STUDENTS THAT ARE FAILING, NO SELF CONFIDENCE, AND THEN THEIR PARENTS DECIDE TO TRY MEDICATION, ONLY TO COME BACK AND THANK US LATER. i HAD ONE STUDENT LAST YEAR WHO WENT FROM FAILING TO MAKING STRAIGHT A'S IN LESS THAN FOUR WEEKS.
YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN THAT YOUNG MAN BEAMING WITH PRIDE, ONCE HE BECAME SUCCESSFUL IN THE CLASSROOM.
now i am not saying that every single kid needs meds. however, for some it makes all the difference in the world.
thank you , angela, for helping your child be ALL that he can be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
my brother (he is 17) has ADHD, and my mom has had the same struggle with medicines. some kinds they've tried help him focus, but he isn't himself. others don't interfere as much with his personality, but don't do enough to help the issue. he is on one now that i think is the best yet. i wish i knew the name; i don't. i do know he has the same side effect in that he hardly eats at all when he's on the medicine.
prayers for jaron!
I know it's tough - but look at it like this:
- it's not something he can control
- it's no one's fault
- you would give him medicine if it were a physical issue and a psychological issue is no different
- anyone who gives you trouble is ignorant and you can just send them my way
I'll be praying!
You are ALL in my prayers - I miss you so very much! Love you all. Baca
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